Not at all. A person can become so self-sufficient they forget how to need things from others. And then of course the other becomes so desperate to provide the one needful thing to the person who seems to be beyond everything. Even worse when that other does not know how to provide what other people need. But I think he identified the pattern before I did. And he was away most of the year. [...] Why do you ask?
DM, 11/7, early morning
Not at all. A person can become so self-sufficient they forget how to need things from others. And then of course the other becomes so desperate to provide the one needful thing to the person who seems to be beyond everything. Even worse when that other does not know how to provide what other people need. But I think he identified the pattern before I did. And he was away most of the year. [...] Why do you ask?